Get married, Stay married, and Live happily ever after

I’m not sure what i intend to do with my life anymore (especially my profession-when i deeply serious to change it..there will be something happened which make me to forget to change it). I think that i’m just going to let it run its course.

Last time..when start to seriously involved with something that people call it "LOVE" and i thought If i end up getting married then i’m going to make sure its the right decision and that i am truly in love with that person. Some people said "Cinta itu Buta"..in my cases..im not so agree....For me "Cinta itu Blur/Rabun. When we are deeply in love with people..we will not see and think too much for the "side effect" which will happened and need us to face it untill our death.....errkkk......btol ker???padahal...before falling in love... we totally cant accept that....feels like whatever happened....we will not accept that thing.....do you understand what i mean???huhhh....too much talk....

Sometimes....its not so critical...its depends on us how to handle it...miserable????not really... as long as its not affect my own life...life must go on....

I feel like divorce is such a hypocritical action unless there is a very legitimate reason behind it like if your spouse turns out to be some kind of serial killer. But if you really loved that person and knew them inside and out than wouldn’t you have known that they had the potential to turn into something like that. If you really did marry a serial killer it was probably a spur of the moment decision that wasn’t even thought about....hahahahah..If happened..i think i'll become like Jeniffer Lopez in her movie "Enough".

Other decisions for divorce just because “you don’t love each other anymore” or “you can’t even stand to live with them anymore” are made lazy people who don’t want to try at anything. Marriage is hard and you have make a lot sacrifices...especially for a wife... so think twice before you make the decision....im telling you...who read this...:):):):)If you ask me now/today.....which one you preferred??single or married.........i'll choose "single"....hahahah...crazy huh......but i'll alwayzzz pray for our happiness.....

Rgds,
Suehey